Relationships
Being human is all about experiencing and discovering relationships. From the moment of birth you began your first relationship with family but you also began forming a relationship with everything else in your world. You have a relationship with yourself, education, health, friends, romantic partners, co-workers , pets and more. You can learn a lot about yourself and improve every aspect of your life by looking into your relationships.
Since relationships are formed from the moment we are born, it’s important to understand that most of your belief systems around relationships were passed on to you by your parents. As a small child you heard many expressions and comments from your parents. I can remember hearing things like “money doesn’t grow on trees’, and ‘you can’t have everything you want’. Our parents meant well but after hearing these statements for 18+ years, they became part of our belief system. Therefore, your experience around money and having things in life might still be greatly affected by statements made years ago. If ‘you can’t have everything you want’, doesn’t that make you feel unworthy or even selfish for asking? If ‘money doesn’t grow on trees’, doesn’t that make you feel like it takes a lot of effort and work to make money? Doesn’t it make you want to cling to any money you make, rather than spend it to make yourself happy?
Think of all the comments you heard around relationships. How many times did you hear negative comments about relationships and marriage from your parents? I heard things like, ‘you can’t live with them and you can’t live without them’, and ‘I’ll never understand men’, or ‘there’s no pleasing that woman’. Even though we weren’t engaged in the conversation (or argument), we heard it and the meaning behind the words went straight into our belief systems file cabinet. There were probably comments about education such as, “you’ll never amount to anything if you don’t try harder’, or ‘if you would apply yourself you could do better’.
It’s a proven fact that children born to families with money, are more likely to be financially abundant when they grow up. This is due to the fact that there weren’t a lot of limiting beliefs around money passed on to them from their parents. I’ve had many clients who have lots of money but their personal and romantic relationships aren’t working out. There are others who have abundance in romance and friendships, but never seem to have enough money.
Most of us have been exposed to limiting beliefs of some kind, but there no need to be concerned. As easily as those negative beliefs were passed on to you, they can be deleted. It takes three simple steps. You must admit they exists, become aware of when they pop up, and be willing to let them go.
When you find yourself having issues around any type of relationship, the place to look for the answer or solution, is within yourself. Even though it may seem like someone else is to blame, the problem always lies within, and is usually locked into place by a belief system that is controlling how you deal with it.
Sometimes it helps to have someone help us look within to find the block, pattern or belief system. Often they become so much ‘a part of who we are’ that it’s difficult for us to see them. Sometimes we can become rather defensive of our own probing, especially when we see patterns around anger, lack of self love or fear of losing our power. Becoming defensive isn’t the answer. You can’t bring release the issue if you aren’t willing to look at the root of the problem.
No struggles or situations need to be permanent. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. We just need to learn how to move toward it. Everyone can have a life overflowing with financial abundance, love, romance and good health.
Sometimes it helps to have someone assist us with this process. This is what a great many of my readings involve. I would be honored to work with you and your Guides and Angels, to get the answers you need in order to have the life you’ve always dreamed of. Consider it the greatest life coaching available; a private session with those who know you best and love you unconditionally.
